Here are about a dozen ways to tell.
So much of medicine depends on maintaining silence. Doctors are told secrets, taught over a period of years how to respond. The expression on a face transforms “stranger” into “patient.” We bear witness, not turning away from any form of suffering, even if it triggers us. This is how we protect patients.
I hate porn.
I don’t hate it because it’s immoral, or because it often explores “unusual” tastes, or because it has uncovered a bestial side of humans we pretended didn’t exist. I hate porn because fucking men who have watched a lot of porn is the worst. The absolute worst. For the sake of your future partners, go easy on the porn. Many young men will watch porn more often than they have sex with other humans. Their beliefs about sex will come from porn and not from interactions with real people.
Guys sometimes ask me for relationship advice. They want me to give them “a woman’s opinion” on a problem they’re having with their wife or girlfriend. My answer never changes. I can’t speak for all women. We’re different. We have different brains.
Your biological sex plays only a small to moderate role in how you see the world. Not all opinions can be predicted based on gender; most girls I know hate the color pink.